A funeral Mass at the parish church.

Funerals

Prayer, mercy, and Christian hope in grief.

In the funeral rites, the Church prays for the dead and walks with the living. We commend a loved one to God's mercy and proclaim the hope of resurrection in Jesus Christ.

Prayer, mercy, and Christian hope in grief.

A gift of grace

The Church prays for the dead, consoles the living, and proclaims the hope of resurrection in Jesus Christ.

A call to grow

The funeral rites help a family grieve truthfully and entrust a loved one to God's mercy.

How Funerals begins

  1. 1

    Call the parish

    Contact us as soon as you are able, even before all details are settled.

  2. 2

    Meet with a priest

    Choose readings, music, and the form of the funeral liturgy.

  3. 3

    Pray for the dead

    The Church commends your loved one to God's mercy.

  4. 4

    Ask what follows

    The parish office can explain available Mass-intention or bereavement resources.

Who is Funerals for?

Any family who has lost someone: parishioner or not: may contact us. If your loved one had drifted from the Church, you are still welcome here.

What to prepare

Call the parish office as soon as you are able, even before speaking with a funeral home. A priest will meet with you to plan the funeral Mass or service, choose readings, and arrange the details.

  • Name of the person who has died
  • Funeral home contact, if already chosen
  • Preferred church, date, and type of liturgy
  • Family contact person for readings, music, and details

Call the parish as soon as you are able, even if not every detail is settled.

More about Funerals

A Catholic funeral is an act of worship and an act of love. We give thanks for a life, we pray for the one who has died, and we hear again the promise at the centre of our faith: that death does not have the last word.

What the parish provides

The funeral may take the form of a full funeral Mass or a liturgy outside Mass, at any of our four churches. A priest will help you choose scripture readings and music, arrange a vigil (prayer service) the evening before if desired, and accompany the burial or interment. There is no charge for the church or the priest, though families often make an offering.

In the days that follow

Grief does not end with the funeral. Our pastoral care ministry visits, prays with, and supports the bereaved. You are welcome at any Mass, and you may request that a Mass be offered for your loved one at any time: simply call the office.

Ask about a sacrament

Parish office: 250-542-1276 · stjamesvernon@rcdk.org